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How to play with children in developing games
Posted by admin1. The game should bring the joy as for child as for adult. Every baby’s success - this mutual achievement: your and his. Rejoice him - is encouraged baby, this pledge his future success. Observe how children are happy if they succeed to move to laughter us.
2. Motivate a child playing, but not forcing him to play, no argument sessions before games satiety. And yet … deterred from insulting comments like: “Ah, you fool!”, “What do you unready!” etc. Do not offend the child in the game.
3. Exploration game - imaginative games. All children must do the game alone. Be patient and do not suggest any word or sigh or gesture or glance. Give the opportunity to think and do everything himself and find mistakes.
4. To feel the relative difficulty of the tasks before giving it to the children, be sure to try them by yourself. Record time for which you have to do this or that task. Learn to do it faster.
5. Try to start with possible targets or simple parts of the game. Success at the outset -is a prerequisite.
6. If the child is unable to cope with the task, then you overestimated the level of his development. Take a break, and within a few days, start with lighter tasks. Even better, if the child choose targets according to his capacity by himself. Do not rush him!
7. If the family has two kids, it is necessary to set the game for both.
8. In what order you should give the game? The author would have started the game with the “prevailing pattern” or “Framework and Montessori liners”. Here, the child must distinguish between color and form. A general rule is to monitor the development of the child, write in a diary of his progress and determine when and what kind of games to “include”. This is a creative challenge for popes and moms.
9. Children’s hobbies are coming “in waves”, so when a child has to cool interest for the game, “forget” about playing for a month or two or even more, and then “accidentally” (show, for example, guests or friend and teach him to play) let the baby remember about it. The return to the game often seems the meet with an old friend, which you haven’t seen for long ago. Try to record gains shifts, each of achieving “waves” hobbies game.
10. Keep the games, don’t put them on accessibility with other toys. After all, forbidden fruit is sweet, and better, if the child asks them or offers himself to play. Let them stand in a visible, but not very accessible place.
11. For the smallest (1,5-3 years) enliven the game by the tale or a story, give “names” (together with the kids, of course) trimming, models, drawings, figures, invent, fantasy, until this process of overcoming difficulties in addressing the challenges of achieving the desired goal begin to attract your child.
12. The more developed a baby for some quality, the more it craves manifestations. Strong wants to fight, rapid – to run and play mobile games, but all these things does not like a weak one. “Not interested in playing” a child can for two main reasons: he had poorly developed that qualities that are needed in the game or just adults discourage him hunting, forcing play or forcibly bringing trouble from the start. Therefore, in any case, whether its successes or failures try to praise your baby!
13. Create a relaxed atmosphere in the game. Not constrained the physical activity of the child let him to jump of delight on mats, and fly under the ceiling at father’s hands.
14. When the folding patterns or models are ready and the tasks already mastered, move to the new invention. Sign the notebook and write or paint there (but it would be better if the baby do this by himself) new assignment, patterns, figure. Read the rest of this entry »